Let’s Talk About Sex

From: BACK HOME AGAIN

A Christian Hoosier that loves games, computers, cars, and liberty.

Yet another study strengthens the case for traditional families, but will our sex-obsessed society take notice?

Dr. Laura had it right in describing the rise of sex as a commodity. You cannot escape it, and it is permissible everywhere except, apparently, in a committed marriage. I read a ‘Dear Abby” column in the paper yesterday in which a reader wrote a response to a question from a lonely husband: “I do all these nice things for my wife, and she still won’t have sex with me! What can I do?”

The response? Stop pressuring your wife and being so selfish. The responder’s husband also is guilty of planning numerous romantic dinners and occasions in the expectation that fun will ensue. Not so, says the responder: he should stop expecting and start merely hoping, but oh, keep up the romanticism. “Remember,” she writes, “it’s about what you are giving, not getting.” Well, news flash - she’s not giving, so he’s not getting. What more does he have to give? The columnist agreed with the responder (of course)…

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